Read the previous installment of this series here:

Part 1

The best part about sex?

Those euphoric and pleasurable feelings that erupt from your body get to be experienced over and over throughout your lifetime.

In moments of passion, your orgasm will feel like an explosion. Other times, your lovemaking session will be gentle and satisfying.

Enough about why sex is awesome.

Let's jump into the how. 

So you've already skillfully created the perfect sensual atmosphere and produced an ample amount of satisfying foreplay:

You and your partner are aroused and ready to rumble.

1. Optional: Grab the lube!

Not necessary, but if you feel the need, we'd opt for either a water-based lubricant or Coconut Oil.

Vaseline or oil-based lubricants can cause latex condoms to deteriorate and ultimately make more of a mess post-sex.

Alternatively, your own saliva also works as a lubricant. Either spit it onto your hands or let your partner know how much you care with your tongue.

2. Do it

The moment you've been waiting for.

Get 'er (or 'im, 'em) done!

3. Positions and Time

Okay, so you're shaggin', now what?

Having the time of your life and being the best lover possible doesn't mean cycling between obscure positions found in the Kama Sutra.

Alternate between 2-4 positions with 3-5 minutes in each one and you're golden.

You can try all the unorthodox positions in the world, but at the end of the day, you can't go wrong with the basics.

They're 'classics' for a reason.

Being a great lover isn't complicated, and fancy technique isn't necessary to impress whomever your in bed with.

Unconventional positions are more of a novelty than anything else. There isn't some secret style that only the Don Juans of the world keep hidden from us mere mortals.

And if you do experiment with some unusual positions--once you've gotten that out of your system--you'll be back to the typical ones in no time.

If you'd like a visual reference of sex positions to try, we found this website handy.

Pour Conclure

This is possibly the shortest installment of the series, as there isn't much to it aside from the above.

Stay tuned--tomorrow and Wednesday's installments will cover the real nitty-gritty on taking your sex game to the next level.

To Be Continued in Part 3A...

Read the next installment in this series here: Part 3A

P.S.

Be sure to check out our toys and recommendations page to bring your play up a notch.

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